Great Gift Ideas
Finding the right gift for someone living with inclusion body myositis (IBM) can be challenging. The best presents strike a balance between practicality and comfort — things that make everyday tasks a little smoother, ease sore muscles, or bring a smile. Whether you’re looking for something cozy, helpful, or fun, here are some thoughtful ideas that show you care and understand.
Comfort & Self-Care
Lightweight weighted blanket (choose a lower weight if mobility is limited)
Ultra-soft oversized throw for couch or bed
Cozy pajamas or loungewear in soft, breathable fabrics
Memory foam or gel cushion to reduce pressure points when sitting for long periods
Hands-free neck or shoulder massager for sore muscles
Calming lotions, balms, or bath soaks (lavender, calendula, or unscented for sensitive skin)
Warm slippers with non-slip soles
Assistance Devices That Feel Like Life Upgrades
(look for stylish, ergonomic versions — many are designed to feel modern rather than medical)
Easy-grip or electric jar/can openers in bright colors
Long-handled reacher/grabber tool with sleek design
Adjustable lap desk or tablet stand for reading, writing, or streaming comfortably
Easy-pour electric kettle or lightweight electric mug warmer
Attractive walker bag or wheelchair tote (check Etsy for handmade designs)
LED motion-sensor nightlights for safer movement after dark
Voice-activated smart speakers (Alexa, Google Nest) for hands-free control of music, lights, or reminders
Experiences & Services
Meal/grocery delivery gift card (DoorDash, Uber Eats, InstaCart)
Meal kit service with pre-chopped ingredients (Gobble, Home Chef)
Housecleaning service gift certificate (one-time or recurring)
In-home massage, nail care, or spa service
Streaming subscriptions (Netflix, Hulu, BritBox, or Audible for audiobooks)
Transportation gift card (Uber, Lyft)
Flower subscription or seasonal bouquet delivery
Virtual class or workshop (cooking, art, music, or history, depending on their interests)
Fun & Feel-Good Gifts
Subscription boxes — books, puzzles, tea, snacks, or crafts
Indoor plant that’s lightweight and easy-care
Large-piece jigsaw puzzles (start at ~500 pieces, so they’re engaging but not overwhelming)
A “good day” box filled with favorite treats, soft socks, and a lighthearted book
Audiobook credits or a curated set of uplifting, easy-listen titles
Lightweight craft kits (watercolor sets, knitting, or coloring books)
Board or card games with simple mechanics but plenty of fun
A decorative lamp or salt lamp for a warm, relaxing glow
Personal Touch
Customized photo book of family, pets, or travels (friends may have great photos to contribute)
Curated playlist of uplifting songs (delivered with tea or snacks)
Handwritten notes or cards to be opened on hard days (anniversaries, birthdays, or “just because”)
A “comfort kit” in a pretty basket: cozy blanket, good tea, chocolate, lip balm, lotion, and a magazine
Resources
If you’re looking for more specialized products or stylish ways to personalize your mobility aids, here are a few places worth exploring:
Carex – Offers a wide variety of daily living aids with modern, functional designs to make everyday activities easier.
Etsy Mobility Aids – A marketplace for creative, handmade, and often colorful walker and wheelchair accessories that let you bring personality and style to your mobility tools.
MobilityAids.com – An extensive online resource with a broad range of products designed for different mobility challenges, from walkers and wheelchairs to adaptive equipment.
At the heart of it, the most meaningful gifts remind someone they’re not facing IBM alone. A thoughtful gesture — whether it’s a cozy blanket, a handwritten note, or simply showing up with a meal — can bring comfort far beyond the item itself. What matters most is the love and care behind the gift.
If you’ve found a gift that made a difference for you or a loved one with IBM, I’d love to hear about it. Please share your ideas in the comments — your suggestions may inspire and help others too.
As always, thanks for joining me here at my blog. Happy shopping.
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This blog post is based on personal experiences and is not meant to provide medical advice.
Always consult your healthcare professional for personalized guidance on your health journey.